Does this sound familiar? You are in a relationship with someone you do not recognize. Secrets and lies cause you to wonder what is true. You are not sure what you can expect, and you hate the dynamic that is now present in your relationship. You do not feel safe or understood. You partner feels more like a stranger, and no one seems to understand how painful this all is for you.
Betrayal and abandonment trauma are real. You are not crazy, and there is hope.
Imagine having stability again where you wake up and know that you are going to be ok. You do not feel the pit in your stomach, and you know how to respond to your partner with confidence.
If this resonates, I hope you will keep reading and consider how I might help.
Self-Actualization
When a betrayal happens, you question everything you've known. The disorientation is dizzying! A key to healing involves less focus on the behavior of your partner and more focus on your self. This feels impossible at first. You can begin to shift focus, take charge of your thoughts, feel your feelings - including grief, and set boundaries to find stability.
Self-Love
While you are working on focus, you can learn to tune in fully. Embodiment is an even more encompassing path to healing that involves mind, emotions and body. Learn to honor your body and what it tells you. Learn to appreciate yourself and love the whole being that you are.
Self-Care
When your world is turned upside down, you must re-prioritize so that you can heal and thrive. This is much more than the occasional treating yourself - this is about offering yourself care and healing.
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